Whether intended or not Two worlds collide. And whether you feel me or not The heart inside Beats, it beats again and again Growing, expanding, helpless to defend. Defend, guard, Protect, shield — Verbs held in high esteem, Refusing to yield To the demands, the pressure, ever unending. My protector’s resolve now seems to beContinueContinue reading “The Choice”
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The Art of Left-handedness
A few weeks ago my husband and I were in our bathroom brushing our teeth before bed. “Why are you brushing your teeth left-handed?” my husband asked me. I glanced down and saw that, yes, my toothbrush was in my left hand. “Uhhh…” I paused, trying to think why I was doing this when IContinueContinue reading “The Art of Left-handedness”
What Date Nights are Not (After You’re Married)
It had been a while since we’d been on a date. The whole having-a-kid thing makes it a little more difficult. Suddenly, a month rolls by and you begin to ask yourself the question, “Have I talked to my husband about anything other than poop, bath time, or nap schedules?” I don’t know about otherContinueContinue reading “What Date Nights are Not (After You’re Married)”
When #Love(Really)Wins
I love my son. And because I love him, I want him to feel loved. Accepted. Safe. I don’t want to do anything to push him away or make him feel alienated. As he grows up, I want him to be understood. Comfortable. Appreciated. Heard. I want him to have freedom to explore and learnContinueContinue reading “When #Love(Really)Wins”
Ignoring the Need
A few weeks ago I had the opportunity to go back to work at Greensboro Pregnancy Care Center for a short period of time. It felt strange temporarily trading in diapers for data entry and cuddles for client files. And I have to say, there was something quite magical about making it through an afternoonContinueContinue reading “Ignoring the Need”
How to Get Your Child to Sleep Instantly Every Time
In lieu of my typical “3 Things Learned…” post, I’ve decided to share a few extra gold nuggets regarding sleep. Stop looking, everyone, because I have found a foolproof method for getting your child to fall asleep for naps and/or bedtime every time. Below I have listed a few simple steps along with 34 simple troubleshootingContinueContinue reading “How to Get Your Child to Sleep Instantly Every Time”
The Intersection of Independence (Bottle-feeding is Emotional)
Ten weeks of 1-2 night feedings was starting to grate on me. Don’t get me wrong – I’ve been so blessed to have a kid who gets good long stretches of sleep. But waking up constantly at 2 or 3 every morning – well – we all know that two fragmented four hour sessions isContinueContinue reading “The Intersection of Independence (Bottle-feeding is Emotional)”
DIY: Balloon Archway
I’ve never done a DIY post before, but as much as I go to Pinterest for DIY ideas and direction, I figured I’d take a whack at posting my most recent DIY exploit – so here it goes! As I’ve mentioned elsewhere on the blog, I previously worked for and now volunteer at Greensboro PregnancyContinueContinue reading “DIY: Balloon Archway”
Memory Loss, Burp Cloths, and Measuring Up: 3 Things Learned in Month 2
In keeping with my goal of writing down some thoughts on what I am learning each new month of mommyhood, here are 3 new things from month number 2 (if you missed my post from month 1, you can check that out here!): 1. Smiles induce memory loss. More specifically, my baby’s smiles. There haveContinueContinue reading “Memory Loss, Burp Cloths, and Measuring Up: 3 Things Learned in Month 2”
Thoughts from a New Mom: When the Poop Overfloweth
It had been an incredibly long and endless day. So around 10 am, Ben and I decided to venture out of the house. I recoiled from the sunlight like an overrated vampire, and hauled Ben’s 10 lb self plus all his many accessories into the car. The kid was sleeping like a – well -ContinueContinue reading “Thoughts from a New Mom: When the Poop Overfloweth”
Mary Holloman 