What Do Scary Things Do?


“I’m afraid of spiders.”

My almost four-year-old eyed me and then quickly redirected his gaze to his toys. His tone was apologetic.

Benjamin’s fear of spiders wasn’t new to me. For a while, he had recurring nightmares involving spiders—the kind of nightmares that would terrify the most fearless adult.

“I don’t blame you, B,” I said. “I think spiders are creepy, too. And you know, everyone is afraid of something. Except for a special Someone. Did you know there is Someone who’s not afraid of anything?”

Benjamin smiled at the familiar question. “God!”

And then his eyes narrowed in concentration. “So what do scary things do when they see God?”

I blinked. When is this kid going to start asking me easier questions?

I imagined a gathering of all the things my children might fear: Spiders. Monsters. Darkness. Storms. Snakes. Strangers. The things that my children shrink back from, or that make them cry out in the night. All things that represent insecurity or the unknown.

And then I imagined those things cowering in fear before a holy and all-powerful God.

I told Benjamin that everything God has created submits to him and obeys him. Which means even the biggest, creepiest spider is no match for our God.

“And the coolest part,” I said, “is that if we know God, the Bible says we don’t have to fear him. He is on our side and promises to protect us and fight for us.”

Benjamin considered my response. “Oh,” he said. “That’s pretty cool.” Satisfied, he went back to his toys.

But I couldn’t get his question out of my head.

What do scary things do when they see God?

I once again pictured the Gathering of Fears. The spiders and snakes are huddled together in one corner. Monsters lurk in the shadows as their rattling breaths pierce the thick silence. Storm clouds churn overhead while strangers with their darting eyes roam nearby.

The mental image was creepy, one that I knew would terrify my son. And then I wondered—what terrifies me?

The Gathering paraded before my mind’s eye again. Only now, in the dark corner where the spiders and snakes once lived, the terror of losing my children hovers. Where monsters once lurked, there is now the anxiety of the unknown. And where storm clouds churned, there is now a thick fog of loneliness and depression that threatens to choke the air from my lungs and the light from my eyes.

What do scary things do when they see God?

My reassuring words to Benjamin were enough for him. I couldn’t help but wonder if they were enough for me.

Romans 8 makes an astonishing claim about God’s relationship with his children:

“If God is for us, who can be against us? Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8: 31,35,38).

Everyone’s afraid of something. But if I am in Christ, my fears have no dominion over me because my heart and my eternity are sealed by the blood of Jesus.

No loss, no anxiety, no loneliness, no depression—and no spiders—can ever separate me from the love of Christ.

What do scary things do when they see God?

They bow on bended knee before my Heavenly Father.

And in the words of a certain almost four-year-old…

“That’s pretty cool.”


This post first appeared on Just18Summers.com.

11 thoughts on “What Do Scary Things Do?

  1. Mary,
    Such a great analogy. And the passage from Romans is one of my favorites. I have it memorized as one of my “go-to” verses to tell myself when life brings those “scary things” my way.

  2. My sweet Mary Holloman. You have, once again, ushered me into the Presence of my Awesome, Almighty God. Keep writing. The Lord has given you, and everyone who reads you, a most special gift. I will always love you. connie g

  3. I had a nightmare about spiders as a kid, one of the earliest nights of “getting my own room” without having to share with my sister, and when I woke up, something on my dresser cast a crazy shadow on the ceiling that looked like a giant spider with enormous legs! I’d never really had a fear of them before that, but honestly, I’m till not too fond of them! However, marrying a biologist helped me learn to appreciate all of God’s creations, whether they frighten me or not! Thanks for the reminder that God is bigger than any and all of my fears!!

  4. I don’t like spiders, but my daughter has always been terrified of them. Your post brought back a lot of memories. But, what is sticking with me is your description of the fearful things–and like most mothers, your concern for your children ranks at the top. We want to protect them from EVERYTHING, but we can’t. We must trust God to do it. And, the most awesome thing is that he is BIG enough to do it. Love that scripture from Romans. Thanks for the blessing you’ve given me today.

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